Planning a threesome

You're ready to play, so what next? We talk you through the planning of a perfect threesome.

So you’ve decided to have a threesome and here you are, on the page of London’s most bewitching threesome escorts. Welcome! So let’s talk about planning a perfect threesome; the dark arts of curating sexual magic. It’s the relational aspect of sex which makes it so exciting. No two encounters are the same, whether with new partners or old. Sexual chemistry is shifting and surprising, teaching us new things about our own and others’ desire. With each person you add to the mix, the sexual energy becomes more multi-layered and that’s why we love threesomes! (Or moresomes – watch this space) Without further ado, here are our top tips on planning a perfect threesome. Communication This should be your starting point for any sexual encounter. What are you hoping to experience? Are there new activities you’d like to try? If a key part of your threesome fantasy is being pegged, staying silent and hoping it’ll happen is the wrong tactic. Your partners will listen to what you say and act accordingly. Tell your partners what sort of dynamic you’d enjoy. Do you want to be submissive or dominant? Would you like to see your partners interacting with each other or would you like the focus to be on you? Likewise, make sure everyone gets the chance to speak honestly about their fantasies as well as their boundaries. Please listen! If you’re involving someone other than the escorts you’re booking, you’ll need to get their consent for the threesome. Flowers and chocolates are a lovely surprise; unexpected sexual partners, not so much. Heterosexual male clients looking for a threesome: your wife or girlfriend should be part of the planning process. BDSM and kink Three-in-a-bed playtime is going to be fun whatever you get up to but if you’d like to make it kinky, just ask. We love role play and can create a scenario which allows you to explore your fantasies. Perhaps you’re an employee, called into head office by the CEO and her fearsome PA to be whipped into shape. Or maybe you’re a headmaster, disciplining the two most badly behaved schoolgirls in London. Alternatively, we can explore BDSM as a trio, playing with power and allowing you to be submissive, dominant, or both. We have lots of toys and restraints so if your ideal escort threesome involves being tied to our bed (or vice versa), just say the word. Chemistry Once everyone has established boundaries and you’ve made a loose plan for the session, allow magic to happen. Each person will bring their own vibe and personality to the threesome, that’s part of the fun, so let things flow. Don’t expect this threesome to be like any others, or even a facsimile of your fantasy; you’re interacting with human beings and the dynamic between you will have a flavour of its own. Checking in Boundaries have been established before you begin, but things can change. Even if you gave enthusiastic consent to being spanked before you began playing, it’s always OK to change your mind. Likewise, your threesome partners might decide they’re no longer up for an activity, or would like to include something else. Sex is never spoiled by pausing to ask, “Is this OK?”, “Are you still enjoying this?”, “Too hard?”, “Too soft?”, “Like that?” If you’re having a threesome with escorts, we’re likely to be adept at keeping the flow going but it’s always good to keep an eye on where the energy is going. There’s nothing worse than sitting awkwardly on the side of the bed as your play partners ignore you – if you see this happening to someone, bring them back into the scene. Sexual health and hygiene It’s best not to use the same fingers on multiple partners. Give us a hand each! Likewise new condoms for each person. And just as when you’re playing with a single partner, fingers which have been in contact with anuses should be nowhere near vaginas. Thank you kindly. Laugh, relax, enjoy Above all else, sex is supposed to be fun. The only part of a threesome that’s crucial is consent; other than that, there are no rules. No one is judging you and there’s no right or wrong way for things to unfold. Let this be about pleasure and, if something goes wrong, laugh and carry on. See you in the bedroom!